A journey of freedom and a date with love: How do girls go out alone to choose?
Backpacking alone and traveling to every corner of the world is the dream of countless girls. But in this long journey, how to choose between freedom and love?
1. The freedom of wandering and the bondage of love
Three years ago, I packed my bags and started my solo travel career. At that moment, I knew that the fate of a wanderer is to always be wandering, always on the road. Dating and falling in love always seem to have a "passer-by" mentality to me. No initiative, no refusal, no responsibility, this is my attitude. Because I know that when the distance in my heart calls again, I will still set off without hesitation.
2. The unexpected encounter of love
However, fate is always full of surprises. I met her last October. A sweet date brings us closer to each other. But two months later, I embarked on a new journey. I thought it was just a brief encounter, but in February this year, our story continued again. This time, it became two people setting off together. I began to wonder, can we, with different backgrounds, languages, and life experiences, rely on love to survive?
3. The intertwining of travel and love
Travel is my pursuit of freedom; love is my expectation of life. But can you really have both at the same time? During the journey, will we have conflicts because of our differences? In a stable relationship, will we lose our freedom because of responsibility and commitment? These questions made me think deeply.
4. The path of growth and the weight of love
On the road of growth, we will meet all kinds of people. Some people are just passers-by; some people will accompany us on a long journey. Whether traveling alone or with a loved one, we will all grow and gain. But how important is love in growing up? Is it as light as a feather or as heavy as a mountain?
5. Choice and future
Back to the original question: How to choose between freedom and love? Perhaps there is no fixed answer to this. In everyone's heart, there is a scale that measures freedom and love. Some people are willing to give up freedom for love, and some people are willing to give up love for freedom. And I am still looking for that balance point.
Finally, I want to tell every girl who ventures into the world alone: No matter which path you choose, you will meet the people you should meet, and you will grow and gain. So, please be brave enough to pursue your dreams, whether it is freedom or love. Bye, I'm just not see you next time - maybe at some corner, we will meet again.
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