Last year, I fell into a period of deep confusion. The road to entrepreneurship was bumpy, with income dwindling and family relationships also having problems. At the crossroads of my life at the age of 30, I felt unprecedentedly confused and helpless. But luckily, I got through that tough time and things are slowly getting better. Today, I want to share some advice with you, hoping to help you who are also struggling with confusion.
First, do something clear and specific . When you feel lost, everything seems to have lost its meaning, you don’t want to do anything, and you can’t muster any passion. At this time, it is particularly important to set a clear and specific plan for yourself. Whether it's going for a walk, swimming, hiking, reading, listening to music, or communicating with friends, let these specific things fill your schedule and don't leave yourself time to do nothing. In this way, you will know what you should do at each time period and will not be filled with guilt due to aimless entertainment. Clarity will take away your wandering thoughts and allow you to seize the moment and seize the moment to a greater extent.
Secondly, find where you have achievements and try to amplify them . On the journey of life, we may do many things, but not every one of them may achieve significant results. It doesn't matter, find where you have achievements and work hard to amplify them. These achievements can be an article with good data, a video with over a thousand views, or anything that you feel a sense of accomplishment. Find your interests and talents, and then continue to optimize your creations until they have an impact. Doing this can help build your confidence and make you more motivated to persevere. Just like when I built this website, I didn't expect to make money at first, but as the number of articles and visits increased, I gradually gained a stable income channel. It was the encouragement and recognition from netizens’ messages that made me write one article after another, and my confidence gradually increased.
Finally, learn to enjoy and communicate . Completing something does not mean working like a cow day after day. It means that you should always observe opportunities like a cheetah, and go all out after seeing the right opportunity. All our achievements come from 20% of key choices and efforts. There is no need to let yourself live an ascetic life, and there is no need to equate hardship with hard work. Effort is to do things that have never been done before, challenge one's own limits, and constantly break into unknown areas; while hardship is just a helpless choice based on reality or a deliberate reduction of one's living standard. Learning to enjoy life will make you more aware of the beauty of life, and will also give you more passion to face challenging things. At the same time, it is also very important to actively communicate with others. When you tell others about what you're experiencing, you'll gain a more objective perspective on your current situation. If you don’t know what to do in the moment, try telling your story as a bystander. Doing this can help you step outside your own perspective and understand the problem more fully.
Confusion is not terrible, it occupies most of our lives. But as long as we take our lives seriously, maintain curiosity and a spirit of exploration, we will surely be able to find the meaning and direction of life. Finally, if you want to learn more about independent development and meet more independent developers, welcome to join our independent development community. Here you can communicate, learn and grow with like-minded people.
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