In the diverse and complex information age, we are often faced with the collision of various viewpoints and the impact of cognitive differences. Among them, our attitude towards the limitations of others has become an important yardstick for measuring our tolerance and wisdom. "Sympathy for the limitations of others is the most appropriate way I can think of to express it." This perspective is like a beacon, illuminating the direction we are heading on the road to cross-cultural communication and understanding.
Recently, many friends with overseas backgrounds have posted online to ridicule the enthusiasm shown by Xiaohongshu users for "yangdou refugees" (it is speculated that this may be wrong, and further verification is needed if it is a specific term). However, we need to understand that not everyone has the opportunity to experience first-hand the diversity and richness of the world. When ordinary people accidentally get such a window to understand the outside world, the enthusiasm they show stems more from the curiosity deep in their hearts. At this time, to easily label this behavior as "kneeling and licking" is undoubtedly a disregard for personal opinions and energy.
Thinking back on our travels, we have probably all encountered situations where foreigners asked us a series of questions based on stereotypes. But if we can put ourselves in the shoes of someone who may have never set foot in China or even had the opportunity to talk to a Chinese person, we can understand their non-subjective stereotypes and limitations. Most of these stem from a lack of information and experience rather than malicious intent. . In this case, instead of simply accusing the other person of ignorance, try to understand and tolerate the other person's perspective and background. Because having empathy for other people's limitations, rather than simply and crudely accusing you of "things you shouldn't do," actually shows respect for everyone.
Empathy is like a bridge that can shorten the distance between people and avoid confrontation. Just like the overseas users and foreign friends on Xiaohongshu, their appearance could have been a valuable opportunity and a wonderful beginning of cross-cultural exchanges. In this era of globalization, we should use an open mind, tolerance, and empathy to resolve misunderstandings and barriers caused by cognitive limitations.
Dear reader, what do you think of this idea? Welcome to leave a message below, let us discuss on an equal footing and explore a broader cognitive world together.
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