In a complicated society, we often hear the ancient saying of "standing at thirty", but for those 30-year-old girls who have no support from their parents, how do they find themselves, realize awakening, and start a new stage of life at this age? ? Today I want to share a true story and some practical tips with you.
I am a girl who has been drifting in Shanghai for 8 years. I only started to wake up when I was 29 years old. I chose not to work anymore when I was 30 years old, but started a new life journey. During this journey, I experienced a transformation from confusion to clarity, and gained countless insights and growth.
We all know that it is often difficult for people to take the initiative to change unless there is a reason why they have to do so. Here, I want to share a cruel and practical method - let pain become your own nuclear power. We can try to record the pain in daily life, such as dissatisfaction at work, stress in life, etc. Carefully delve into the reasons behind these pains. Whenever you want to be lazy again, recall the painful feeling at the beginning, so that you can have the motivation to change. Remember one principle: whoever suffers changes, and whoever changes benefits.
If you want to get new nutrients, you must give up your previous habits. Here, I would like to introduce a method of "restarting life in 22 minutes". Try to make a small change every day, such as reading a book for 2 minutes first, doing exercise for 2 minutes first, writing an article for only 2 minutes, etc. This small but unusual change can help us gradually get out of the predicament of life and restart our lives. If you want to quit your job, start by writing the first line of your resume after get off work.
On the journey of life, we need to find some high-quality partners to move forward together. These partners can be divided into two categories: first, people with a higher level than you, whose words and deeds can inspire and enlighten you; second, partners with the same level as you, you can supervise each other and make progress together. The road upward is doomed to be lonely, but you can go further if you have someone to walk with you.
Looking back on my 8-year experience as a Shanghai drifter, from confusion to awakening to the current new stage of life, I deeply realize that each stage has its own unique value and significance. I hope that by sharing my story and skills, I can bring some inspiration and help to those 30-year-old girls who are also groping on the road of life. Let us take that step bravely together and start a new life of our own!
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